You didn’t expect to be here again — scrolling, swiping, wondering how to start over. In your 20s, dating felt easier, lighter, maybe even exciting. Or maybe it didn’t, but you fell in love and you weren’t out there anymore. Perhaps the stakes were lower and you were just having fun. Now? It’s more complicated…. Continue Reading
Dating Tips For Folks On The Autistic Spectrum (And What Neurotypicals Should Know About Autistic Lovers)
Dating Tips for Autistic People (And What Neurotypicals Should Know About Autistic Lovers) Are you on the autistic spectrum and looking for love? Or are you on the autistic spectrum and finding the dating world hard? Are you a neurotypical person who is wanting to be a better date to folks on the spectrum (or… Continue Reading
How to Make Great Small Talk: What NOT To Ask The Future Love Of Your Life (And What To Ask Instead)
What Not To Ask When Making Small Talk You’re at a conference or a party or an awesome singles event, like one of these speed dating working bees at Ceres in Melbourne. You’re meeting a lot of lovely people, maybe even one who gives you little tingle. You want to make a good impression, but… Continue Reading
How Do You Do Your Guru?
Many years ago I was faffing around in the dating universe, online and offline and everywhere. There were several relationships gone by the wayside, and I just couldn’t get the hang of ‘being out there’. Where were the expert tips I needed? Then I read ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’. It held many epiphanies…. Continue Reading
How to Find Love From A Place of Self-Love (The Strategic Way Forward)
16 self-loving dating strategies so you can actually find the love of your life and stop putting up with crap. Finding love from a place of self-love is about meeting a person you REALLY want (and who truly deserves to be) in your life. But it’s easier said than done, as you’re more than aware…. Continue Reading
Online Dating: The Only Tip You Need For Success
Online dating (or all dating) still seems relatively unsophisticated in Australia. If you’ve ever travelled in France, Spain, the USA or a myriad of other countries, you might have been rather pleasantly (or not-so-pleasantly) shocked to discover that people approach one another much more forwardly than they do here. They think you’re attractive and/or they… Continue Reading






