With so much sex information and advice out there, it can be a real anxiety-provoking hunt to find something that’s right for you. In particular if you: Are new to the journey of discovering yourself or others sexually Don’t fit into mainstream moulds or images of sexual identity Have survived sexual violence or a traumatic… Continue Reading
Why Hannah Gadsby’s Nanette is so Important
Hannah Gadsby’s Nanette is a game-changer. But I was almost a full half hour in and not quite sure why so many clients, friends and colleagues had gotten in touch: “You need to see Hannah Gadsby’s stand-up comedy special Nanette on Netflix. It’s [insert chosen magnificent superlative]”. I mean, it was good. It wasn’t hilarious…. Continue Reading
The Rules of Attraction: What is Bisexuality?
What is bisexuality, why does it matter to mental health, and a response to this nonsense plebiscite… Say it is time for dessert and you have the options of cake or pie. The cake is a family recipe and your entire family expects you to or assumes that you would choose the cake. If you… Continue Reading
Video Book Club: ‘Doing It’: how it can help your sex life and self-worth
Fortnightly book review video time! ‘Doing It: Women tell the truth about great sex’ (can be purchased via Penguin) and how it can help you not only have better sex, but trust your body, know and love yourself, and escape from society norming. Aussie women of all ages and sexualities talk- make you laugh, cry,… Continue Reading
Breaking up: Un-advice for the newly single woman
1) Have sex with your ex You’re probably going to do it anyway. In fact, just keep doing it- for about 1/3 of as long as you were together for. Why not? You’re comfortable together. They know your body and you know theirs. One or both of you still love each other. There’s so much… Continue Reading
