The Unplanned Silence: A Three-Week Experiment in Presence. As an online life coach, relationship coach and counsellor, I often discuss technostress with my clients. But to accidentally find myself in a digital detox really showed me how hard it is to address it. We frequently theorise about how to reclaim mental bandwidth without a phone,… Continue Reading
You’re Not “Too Nice.” You’ve Just Been Over-Attuned to Everyone Else
How to Stop People-Pleasing and Build Self-Worth That Isn’t Fake. Let me start here: being exquisitely attuned to other people’s moods, needs, micro-expressions, and unspoken tensions is not a flaw. It is extraordinary. To feel that much. To register the slight shift in tone. To sense when someone is off before they do. To care…. Continue Reading
Career Burnout in Your 30s and Beyond: The Signs No One Talks About (And How to Reclaim Your Energy)
Earlier this year I had a conversation that keeps replaying in my mind, with a woman who leads a Government department researching some of the toughest institutional problems you can imagine. She told me she was looking for signs of stress, burnout, or vicarious trauma in her staff: Exhaustion, avoidance, and ‘checking out’. Basically the… Continue Reading
My Boss Is Destroying Me… But I Can’t Leave (Yet)
How to survive a toxic boss without quitting Let me tell you a story about a woman I’ll call M. She’d worked her way up in her role over five years—loyal, self-directed, good at mentoring junior staff even when it wasn’t in her job description. Her boss? A master of plausible deniability. Think public praise,… Continue Reading
Diary Of A Teacher
GUEST POST: Diary Of A Teacher is a bite of real life, exposing the teacher anxiety, paralysing overwhelm and dread many overworked teachers feel. Thank you very much to the generous writer for sharing this with my readers. Helping people feel seen is always noble. Going back to school. That anxiety thing. Here’s how it… Continue Reading
