‘You can have it all’ they said! And we believed them. Even though we pretend to know better these days we are still easily captured by this narrative. It’s a trap. Women in particular are plagued by the ‘how can I find balance?’ question. But why is it a problem? Isn’t ‘balance’ a good thing?… Continue Reading
Sex Resources For Beginners To Experts (ethical sex is so hot right now)
With so much sex information and advice out there, it can be a real anxiety-provoking hunt to find something that’s right for you. In particular if you: Are new to the journey of discovering yourself or others sexually Don’t fit into mainstream moulds or images of sexual identity Have survived sexual violence or a traumatic… Continue Reading
Poem For Willow
Poem for Willow is about coping with pregnancy loss It’s a personal story and a guest post. When it appeared on social media a couple of weeks ago, I was deeply moved and knew it was a special piece that would touch many. I asked this wonderful woman if I might share it, and she… Continue Reading
Una Paloma Blanca
When you are rebuilding your life, sometimes help comes from the most surprising of places. Una paloma blanca I’m just a bird in the sky Una paloma blanca Over the mountain I fly No one can take my freedom away Chandni* was at a crucial time in our work together. She’d been rebuilding herself and… Continue Reading
Breaking up with Diane (Brenda, Yasmin and Estelle)
Diane Depression — Breaking up with Diane (Brenda, Yasmin and Estelle) An honest review of the contraceptive pill: Diane 35ED, Estelle, Brenda and Yasmin. And how to treat PCOS without it. “Well, it looks like you have a hormonal imbalance” The family doctor was sitting across from my mother and me. I was aged 18… Continue Reading
Are You Even Good Enough For Imposter Syndrome? Buggering Off the Not-Good-Enoughs (video)
Are You Even Good Enough For Imposter Syndrome? I’m not good enough. Have you ever had that thought? The Not Good Enough’s keep you trapped in shit jobs, toxic relationships, messy dating habits, prevent you from finding the kind of love you deserve, stop you from standing up for yourself, ruin your confidence to go… Continue Reading
