Why Choose Online Relationship Counselling and Coaching?
My name is Nicole Hind and I’m an online relationship/love coach, online personal/life coach, online business coach for therapists, and online counsellor.
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As a narrative therapist, I’ve got 20+ years of helping folks under my belt. I’m from Australia, and now work 100% online as a location independent therapist (or ‘digital nomad’ though that title feels like it belongs to 20-somethings dropshipping in Chiang Mai or something).
I centre all my work around relationships and the wonderful stuff that can grow in our connections with others.
This video will tell you a bit about my inclusive online counselling and online coaching services. But it’s also to give you a sense of what it might be like to sit with me, doing the work. If you get a good feeling- maybe something excited or hopeful or relieving- then you’re on the right track.
Relationship/love coaching online can be challenging work, i’m not gonna lie. But the work of building intimacy so you can move onto next steps together can also be fun, sexy and joyful.
Personal/life coaching online for single folks is all about learning to let go of the past. I can help you (re)find your confidence and self-worth so you can find love (with others and also with yourself). Personal/life coaching online can also help you with work and career stuff- most of my clients have moved onto better jobs or started businesses, even when they hadn’t originally planned to.
Online counselling with me is about (re)finding a solid sense of identity, as a couple or as an individual. Have you lost your sense of identity due to some kind of change- whether that was slow or sudden? I’m your gal.
Narrative therapy is about locating problems outside of you, naming them and understanding how they get in the way of the life you want to live.
You are not the problem, the problem is the problem.
And when it’s not ‘who you are’ we can change the way the problems are invading your relationships and your life.
To find out more please look around the website. Or dive in and book an appointment directly.
If you think we’d be a good match, but you don’t fit into the services listed above, then please don’t hesitate to contact me anyway. All inquiries welcome, but please note I no longer do deep trauma work.
Don’t wait until it’s too late to improve your love-life and your life-life. There’s nothing more important than our relationships. You can re-write your relationship story, no matter how messy it’s become.
Why Choose Online Relationship Counselling and Coaching?
** Original music composition + video and audio editing by Scot Aird @ScotAirdMusic
TRANSCRIPT
Being able to enjoy genuine loving connections is crucial for our personal joy- and for the future of the planet- but most of us struggle with relationships.
We get stuck in unhelpful behaviours and negative patterns.
We can’t see past our differences.
We’re reactive or defensive or afraid to say what we feel, what we really desire.
And so often we desperately want to change, but feel powerless.
Narrative therapy can help you re-author your relationship story.
I’m Nicole Hind and I’ve been helping all sorts of people with their relationship struggles for over 20 years. I’m an inclusive online counsellor and relationship coach serving diverse folks all around the world.
As a relationship coach I help couples and lovers who are bogged down in problem stories learn new skills and discover their unique strengths so they can move onto ‘the next step’ with clarity, connection and joy.
As a personal coach I help singles who are exhausted from dating and bad relationships internalise the self-worth they need to not only find a solid partner, but approach all areas of their life with confidence and happiness.
And as a counsellor I help couples, singles and other folks rediscover a strong and sparkling sense of identity they thought they’d lost.
Narrative therapy is a way of talking about our problems without getting bogged down in them. We develop practices, such as externalising, to name and re-locate problems from inside ourselves to outside.
When problems are outside of us they stop being these impossible-to-change parts of who we are- they stop being our identity.
And become something we can explore and shift.
If you’re in a couple, it’s about stopping the blame game and focusing on the problem together, facing outward. That might involve searching for and naming a better, deeper shared problem. And it will also involve searching for and naming your incredible untold skills you don’t even know your relationship possesses.
If you’re solo and you want to find love, the best place you can do that from is giving more of a shit about yourself. Even if you’re already pretty confident, dating can knock you around and have you wondering if your expectations are too high or if you just attract bad attention. Neither of these is true, I’m sure, and I don’t even know you yet!
The fact is everyone deserves to be loved and love deeply and passionately. If you haven’t experienced that yet or you struggle to give it freely, this is the right place for you.
You will learn to:
- Understand and appreciate the beauty of difference, especially when it comes to communication styles
- Slow down reactions, stay calm and get clear when conflict arises
- Trust that people you love are still right there by your side having your back even when you don’t see eye to eye
- Get creative and proactive when it comes to exploring and resolving problem stories
- Enjoy a better sex life (in relationships or alone)
- Re-member loved ones who have died in ways that are not painful but feel helpful, beautiful and embed their gifts to you and support you in your current relationships
- Be genuine and vulnerable with yourself and with significant others (even when it’s embarrassing at first) by using language that works for YOU
- Feel more in-control of your behavjour and confident in your way of being in the life you choose to live every day.
And lots of other lovely and practical stuff that will serve you for the rest of your days.
If this sounds like your bag, you can book an appointment with me directly via my website. There’s a bar at the top of the page.
If you’re not ready for that, you can look around unveiledstories.com to find out more about what I can offer you.
You can sign up for my monthly newsletter to get lots of delicious free stuff. Such as the latest blog posts, narrative therapy-esque explorations, artsy recommendations for emotional ailments and much more.
Or you can just contact me via the tab to ask any questions.
I’d love to help you be in the kind of accepting, supportive and joyful relationships you admire.
I hope this video about online relationship counselling and coaching with me has inspired you. If you have any questions, i’d love to hear from you.
If you want to read more about narrative therapy, ‘What is Narrative Therapy?‘ by Alice Morgan is an excellent introduction. Please note if you click and buy I may get a small commission from Amazon at no extra cost to you. But I only recommend things I support. And this book is one of the best for narrative therapist beginners. Or clients who want to know more about their own therapy journeys.
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